Go take a critical look at most of those relationships where the guy or babe has only one thing to offer, they will keep talking of security. They want reassurances always. Tell me you love. Promise you will not leave me. Are you sure you are not playing with me? Am I the only one in your life? Do you really love me? Are you tired of this relationship? Do you still love me? .... blah blah blah! When all you have is a hammer everything is a nail. That is what sums up these kind of people. That explains why they get so angry when you are away from them for so long. Their only stake in the relationships needs to be activated regularly to remain relevant in the scheme of things and in their spouses thoughts.
"That
also explains why many who marry because the sex is good, find out
later that good sex doesn't pay bills. Neither does it cook, run the
home, guarantee respect, make your spouse a person you can rub minds
with and not skin. You see you may not know it, but I will tell you, you
may be extremely beautiful. That is good. But like sex, if that beauty
is all there is to you, in the relationship, the day that beauty is
discounted by someone else who has brain and beauty body and cooking
skills, with a good dose of home management, last last na modeling
agency go need you. So you are a guy, and all you have in your value
proposition brief case is muscles. Hiaaaaam. No common sense. Nothing
else. So Iet's look at the sex sef... after a while, its bargaining
value in the relationships could diminish. When that happens what will
be your new bargaining chip? Same goes for cash. I know a top society
lady who married a big time Lagos big boy, when she knew he was in bad
times, she vamoosed! And went to kids for another man. How could she?
She could, and she did. Some people too, if the marry you because of
your Dad's political office, when the term of office is running out,
they run out too."
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